Leadership coaching shapes your culture — for better or worse
Here’s a hard truth: Most employee experience problems aren’t about broken systems. They’re about broken leadership — and bad coaching is often part of the problem.
Because not all leadership coaching works. Some approaches teach managers to drive results at all costs. Others actually help them lead people well. The difference? It shows up in every conversation, every decision and every team dynamic.
If you want to improve engagement, retention and culture, don’t start with surface-level solutions. Start with the people shaping your employees’ everyday experience: your leaders.
Your coaching style = your culture style
Leadership coaching used to be seen as a last-ditch effort to “fix” struggling execs. Now? It’s one of the most effective ways to create the kind of leaders people actually want to work for — and stay for.
But let’s be clear: Not all coaching is created equal.
Results-first coaching | People-first coaching |
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Focuses on outcomes, accountability and efficiency | Focuses on connection, empathy and understanding |
Teaches managers to manage targets, not people | Teaches managers to understand what drives their teams |
Uses phrases like “ditch the drama” or “eliminate emotional waste” | Emphasizes vulnerability and open feedback |
Delivers short-term wins, but risks burnout and turnover | Builds long-term engagement, loyalty and a healthy culture |
Encourages control over connection | Encourages empathy over authority |
Some leadership coaching programs are laser-focused on results, accountability and performance. They teach managers to manage outcomes, not people. You’ll hear phrases like “ditch the drama” or “eliminate emotional waste.” These approaches might sound efficient, but they often leave real human needs out of the equation.
And that matters. Because the way you coach your leaders directly shapes how they lead others. If coaching teaches them to silence feedback, dodge vulnerability or prioritize control over connection? That trickles down.
On the flip side, people-first coaching helps leaders:
Build self-awareness around how they actually show up
Listen better and act on what they hear
Communicate clearly and directly without creating fear
Lead through change with empathy, not just authority
That kind of coaching doesn’t just make managers more effective. It makes them more human. And that’s what your culture needs.
If you can’t communicate, you can’t lead
Let’s get real: If you can’t communicate, then you can’t connect, influence or empower. And make no mistake — communication isn’t just passing along information. It’s about:
Understanding others
Empathizing with their position
Finding common ground
That takes emotional intelligence — and too many managers simply don’t have it.
When leaders lack EQ, they:
Miss the signals that matter (like stress, disengagement and confusion)
Bulldoze instead of listening
Default to defensiveness instead of curiosity
And their teams feel the fallout every day.
That’s why leadership coaching that focuses on communication is a must-have. Developing these skills helps leaders cut through the noise, build trust and make change stick.
Where most leaders fall flat
Most managers can muddle through the easy stuff. But when the stakes are high — performance conversations, team conflict, shifting priorities — things fall apart.
These are the moments that define employee experience because they show people’s true colors. And too often, leaders are left to navigate them without the tools or the confidence they need.
Coaching changes that. It gives leaders the space to process, the skills to respond and the awareness to do it in a way that builds trust instead of breaking it.
And when leaders know how to coach others — not just receive coaching themselves — it creates a ripple effect:
Feedback flows both ways.
Teams become more resilient.
People feel heard, supported and respected.
That’s the employee experience people actually care about.
Culture lives in how leaders show up
When leaders are consistently coached in a people-first way, they:
Ask better questions
Stop avoiding hard conversations
Make space for others to grow
Model vulnerability and emotional intelligence
In other words, they lead like humans — not just like authority figures.
And when that kind of leadership becomes the norm, not the exception? You don’t have to rely on pingpong tables or inspirational posters to keep people engaged. The culture speaks for itself.
If it’s not about people, it’s not working
If you’re serious about improving employee experience, stop chasing surface-level fixes. The most thoughtful DEI initiative or flexible work policy won’t land if your managers can’t lead people with clarity, empathy and accountability.
Leadership coaching isn’t just a tool for individual growth. It’s a culture-shaping force — for better or worse, depending on the approach you choose.
So be intentional. Don’t just ask, “Are we coaching our leaders?” Ask, “What kind of leaders are we creating through this coaching?”
Because when you get that right, everything else gets easier.